We want there to be a reason for the things that happen in our life, because if there’s a reason then you can come up with a strategy and a way overcome it next time.

But sometimes despite our desires lots of things don’t happen for a reason or they happen for reasons that aren’t apparent at the time.

You can spend a ton of time and energy trying to find the reason something happened and worrying about if it will happen again, but sometimes you’re better off if you just accept what is, take responsibility for your part, and take a step forward into what you want to create.